When I help others improve and grow in their career and life I grow and improve my career and life. When you serve others you grow as a leader and you accomplish more through what you learn.
We all have many aspects of our lives. Family, Work, Church, our extra curricular activities, friends, and so many different other areas that give us the chance to be somebody different in every given situation. I know people that are the cursing tyrant type of person at work and then come home and are a loving caring person with the family. I know people that treat the people at work better then they treat their own family. You have the person who is terrible at home, terrible at work, and then is a saint when attending church.
Why do people spend so much time living to please people in different ways? This adds stress and inconsistency that the person even becomes confused who they are. People can be different around certain people that even their own spouse or mother wouldn’t recognize them. Why do you think the phrase “Do you kiss your momma with that mouth?” is so popular. People will say things in one situation they would never say in another. They would say one thing to somebody they would never say to another. We won’t bring up email or text messages. That can bring on a different type of person all together.
What is your Leadership to Management Ratio?
Balancing your Leadership to Management Ratio is an important factor when becoming a better Leader. What makes it very difficult is when you don’t know the difference between the two. Just to clarify the difference lets briefly describe some of the key traits of each:
Leadership: Interest in the Individual, Good Listener, Forward Looking, Visionary, Honest, Mission Driven, Say Thank You, Gives Compliments, Understanding, Goal Oriented, Competent, Influences Teamwork, A Can Do Attitude, Gives Credit Where Credit is Due, Asks Questions Without Giving an Opinion, Provides Motivation, Shares Authority, etc.
Make people feel important. Communicate! You need people who are committed. You will not have commitment without connection and you will not have connection without communication. Talk to people daily!
I recently bought a car. It was a nice car and all cars are expensive these days. About a week after I drove the car home I got a letter from the dealer/salesrep. It was a nice letter that was all printed out on a piece of paper. The letter had my name at the top. But it and was a carbon copy type letter that could be sent to everyone who purchased a car from this dealer. At the bottom was my sales persons name and a space for him to sign. Only the sales person never signed the letter. Now it was nice to get this letter don’t get me wrong but there was no personalization at all. The sale person did not even sign where there was room for the signature. I doubt it was my salesman who put the letter in the envelope and mailed it to me.
Time for the kids to go back to school and start learning again. Funny how some of us can’t wait to get out of school and start with our own career, life, etc. But do we ever stop learning? Sure we learn about life and the ins and outs of what it takes to raise a family. We learn about a career. But what are some ways we can keep learning to better ourselves? To learn about a hobby? To learn more about our career and how we grow as professionals? Learn about personal development and living a well rounded life like this website teaches. No matter what it is you want to learn or when there are countless resources to help you learn.
People can now get equal to a college degree with free resources thanks to the Internet. We have free resources that will change the way people get an education after high school. Colleges will need to reinvent themselves to prove their worth at the rate these alternate methods are growing.
This week we will just touch on some pretty basic tools that people are using these days that are pretty common. These are tools that can increase your knowledge in a matter of hours or even minutes. Just think what a few short minutes a day over the course of a year would do for you.
Three Ways to keep learning without going back to school are:
If you want to find treasure you have to do some digging
I just wanted to take some time to post an update on this site. Blogs, ideas, training, etc are all coming together. YouTube Videos, Webinars, etc are all in the planning and development stages. I look forward to posting blogs very soon. What can you expect from this site?
This site will give you the tools to Win at Life, Win at Business, and Win at Leadership. I will be happy to share my 30+ years experience in these areas and give you the tools that helped me succeed.
I planned to post once a week. After reviewing the areas between life and business it only made sense to post twice a week. Here is what I am planning so far.
Every Blog will focus on winning at life, winning at business, and winning at leadership. Focusing on accomplishing more though goals and standards.
Mondays – Leadership and Business Focus. This will start out your work week and give you the tools to Win at Leadership, Business, Growth, Etc. Topics: Leadership, entrepreneur, team building, tips on running more successful meetings, etc.
Thursdays – As we get closer to the weekend we can adjust our focus from the busy work week to focus on ourselves. Thursday blogs will focus on personal development. These will have a leadership theme and will help you with Leadership and Business but with a focus on Winning at Life. The main focus is to give you the tools to make you better. Topics: Health & Fitness, Organization, Financial, Family, Social, and a variety of other topics.
What could have been and should have been can still be. Get off your butt and make it happen.
Welcome to my new blog. My name is Pete Szpakowski. My goal is to help you build the knowledge and skills to help you maximize your life, your career, and your business. I am an online virtual mentor. If you want to maximize your life in any area this is for you. Business, Financial, Health, etc.
I plan to post once a week on Tuesdays starting in September 2016. This is not just a site for a blog but a dialog between the community of people we build on this site. I encourage each of you to comment on the posts and learn from each other. I will read and interact with each one.
If you have a topic you want me to address, please leave a comment below. I am looking forward to connecting with you.